Slightly kink - Japanese

I don't know if it is a thing that japanese people* do - but we jokingly call sex while menstruating "Japanese", referring to the fact that a large red puddle of blood on a white sheet resembles the japanese flag.

Yes, more squemishness may be in store for you and you may even doubt this but the fact is that there is a fetish for everything: Some men like sex with a woman when she has her period.

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Who are my clients?

Édouard Manet painting possibly representing clients and sex workers

Some people are curious and I have been asked who my clients are. I suspect to make themselves feel better about their negative attitudes towards sex work and to feel removed from it as much as possible, some like to think of sex workers' clients as revolting, perverse and generally unattractive men, the other, whom they are unlikely to have known. Let me assure you that in my experience this is not the case. The men we have sex with for money are your average men.  They are in everyone's lives as boyfriends, husbands, fathers, brothers and sons. I'm delighted to have met most of my clients.

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Slightly kink - Greek

The tiniest bit of what I do is slightly kink, so if you get slightly squeamish about anything that is not totally straight you may want to skip this post.  Because it's about anal.

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Men's fantasies - Other Woman Experience (OWE)

I've seen the OWE (other woman experience) happen a wee bit in my time doing sex work.  Last year a working girl friend of mine had a year long (in his eyes it was an affair) series of bookings with a regular client who declared his undying love, promised exotic holidays which she turned down as she knew they did not include payment for her, and told her he would leave his wife for her.

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To the men who respond to my newspaper advertisements

my little advert

Please don't think that because I'm advertising in the Press or your free community newspapers, alongside the traditionally lower-priced but sometimes fictional Asian agency ladies, that I am also prepared to offer my services for lesser amounts than I advertise elsewhere.

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Men's fantasies - Girl Friend Experience (GFE)

Amber O'Hara's mirror selfie in her boudoir

Men who are single or whose partners are choosing to abstain from sex often have a desire or a fantasy for a more intimate and connecting sexual experience as if they were in the bed of a hot girlfriend who will not smack his hand or make him feel like he is pestering her for sex when he attempts foreplay.

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Does the G-Spot exist?

This is just a short post because occasionally I hear people saying the g-spot is a load of old cobblers.

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Men's fantasies - Porn Star Experience (PSE)

It's the fantasy of a lot of men to fuck a porn star or fuck like a porn star but sadly it is beyond reach for most guys.  However if you visit a sex worker who specialises in PSE, it's like you can direct and star in your very own porn movie with a very hot leading lady.

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Et tu, Google+?

Amber O'Hara's now banned Google Plus profile

Gosh, it's as if sex workers don't have enough to juggle with, without now being overly-censored by the stuffy and the righteous on this vast wasteland of free porn, otherwise known as the Internet.

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Talk dirty to me...

Amber O'Hara and her phone

If you have been reading my Details and Prices page from about a fortnight ago, you will notice that I offer a new service now, namely phone sex.

I've always been the girl who loves sex and especially loves to talk about sex, I guess that's why I have this blog: so that those who want to listen (read) can.  But there is something even more wanton when you can talk dirty down the phone to a horny man about whatever he wants to talk about.  And it really makes a girl aroused to get a live, realtime reaction.  It's almost as good as the real thing.

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